Friday, 25 December 2015

MISSconceptions

(misconceptions about women) 

Misconceptions is something that most of the people carry for one or the other thing. It is really easy to judge people over little things, disregarding the fact that you have no idea about the circumstances they are facing.
There are tons of good and bad misconceptions about Ladies. They are often the topic of fun for numerous things. Incapability of a few women is literally generalized for the whole community!

Here are few such misconceptions about women. The photos and examples will give a tight slap as an answer to those misconceptions. There are lot many examples but one or two are shared.

1. Cries a lot

First of all, crying is not a sign of weakness. Its just the sad feeling flowing through eyes. Resisting tears is not the way to show your strength. And there are women out there who face hell like situations without complaining or shading a tear.
She who begs to feed her kids, She who works day and night for her family, She who washes dishes to buy stuff, She who works in office for 8 hours, She who is the support of her family tree...

They FACE it. They don't CRY.


Do you know : Mary E. Walker, Annie Fox, Margaret Corbin, Cordelia E. Cook

     
       

Mary Edwards Walker 

(November 26, 1832 – February 21, 1919) was an American feministabolitionistprohibitionist , alleged spy,prisoner of war and surgeon. As of 2015, she is the only woman ever to receive the Medal of Honor.After the war, she was approved for the highest United States Armed Forces decoration for bravery, the Medal of Honor, for her efforts during the Civil War. She is the only woman to receive the medal and one of only eight civilians to receive it.

2. Spends too much


Not every women is "Kharchali".
There are women who manage their house in minimum salary of their husbands. They don't buy things for themselves for years. They prove a perfect example of management and hard work.



3. Can't play football or Cricket

Well.. this is one of the most common misconception about females. Since childhood boys tease girls that they can't play "manly games" like football or Cricket. Even today Males consider that girls simply don't play these games. And if she says that she does, they ask with amazement and shock "Really? you play?" with great uncertainty on their face.


Do you know :  Nadine Angerer or Mithali Raj 




Mithali Raj
She led the Indian team to the finals in the Women's Cricket World Cup of 2005 where the team lost to Australia. She is a part-time leg break bowler as well. She is a recipient of the Arjuna award for the year 2003. She currently tops the batting table with 703 ratings points. Her composure when at the crease and ability to score briskly make her a dangerous cricketer. In addition to her ability with the bat, Mithali rolls her arm over bowling leg-spinners and providing variety to the attack. At the 2013 Women's World Cup, Mithali Raj starred as the No.1 Cricketer in the ODI chart among women. She scored 100s: 1 and 50s: 4 in Test cricket, 100s: 5 and 50s: 36 with best bowling of 3/4 in ODI's and 50s: 7 in T20's. Mithali is the second person to achieve 5000 runs in ODI women cricket.

4. Less knowledge of computer

"Girls consider themselves computer masters
 if they can download a movie from torrent."

Often heard this joke? Still nothing funny about it. -_-
A Complete Misconception. There are a lot female computer engineers out there who have proved themselves. 
Do you know :Heddy Lamarr, Susan kare, Grace Hooper 


Grace hopper

She was called the Queen of Software by some and Grandma COBOL by others, Navy Rear Admiral Grace Hopper helped invent some of the early English-language programming languages. She is most famously associated with the Common Business-Oriented Language (COBOL), which was based on the FLOW-MATIC language that she designed back in 1958.

5. Can't drive 

Though you can see many girls banging their vehicles on roads these days, but that doesn't mean "girls can't drive". Millions of women in whole world drive safely and teach their family members to do so. One simply can't make statements like the above one.


Do you knowMichèle Mouton, Sabine Schmitz, Hellé Nice 



Michèle Mouton 



(born 23 June 1951) She is a French former rally driver. Competing in the World Rally Championship for the Audi factory team, she took four victories and finished runner-up in the drivers' world championship in 1982. She is still the last woman to compete in top-level rallying.


In the 1982 season, Mouton finished a close second overall to Walter Röhrl, after wins in PortugalBrazil and Greece, and helped Audi to its first manufacturers' title. Her campaign the following year resulted in fifth place. In 1985, she won the Pikes Peak International Hill Climb in the United States, setting a record time in the process. In 1986, she moved to Peugeot and won the German Rally Championship as the first female driver to win a major championship in rallying. Mouton became the first president of the FIA's Women & Motor Sport Commission in 2010 and the FIA's manager in the World Rally Championship in 2011.


6. Weak at maths


It is scientifically proved that more no. of man are good at maths than women. But I can still find many girls around me scoring 100 on 100 in mathematics and physics. It is more of a hard work. And most of us can really be good at these subjects if we put enough efforts. 

Do you know : Florence Nightingale, Ada Lovelace, Mary Somerville, Maryam Mirzakhani 



Maryam Mirzakhani

She took part in the International Mathematical Olympiads, becoming the first Iranian student to achieve a perfect score and win two gold medals. In 2014 Maryam Mirzakhani was the first ever woman to receive the Fields Medal, which is sometimes described as a Nobel prize for mathematics. She is now a mathematics Professor at Stanford University in the U.S. and is considered one of the greatest living female mathematicians. In a recent newspaper article Maryam was quoted as saying: ‘The more time I spent on maths, the more excited I got’ describing how her love of mathematics grew from her teenage years onwards.

7. Are sensitive

Who doesn't know this women ? Indrani Mukharjee. 
The mother who killed her own daughter and lied to her son about his sister. One of the worst and most complex murder cases. 
Sensitive? 
Bitch please. 



There are more like They can't fly kites, Quarrel a lot, Can't do fighting, Gets Jealous usually, etc etc etc. But mind well not every girl does so and thus you can't joke or pass trolls over such matters. 
 
And last but not the least is, 

8. Loves pink the most.. 

         
  








Special Thanks - to few of my friends and relatives who helped  me know these misconception. 

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Tuesday, 22 September 2015

How to have a miraculous life..

Miracle.. If waves of excitement are created in your heart after reading this word, then it proves that you believe in Miracles. Congratulations dear reader, you are believing in a damn true thing. The thing that can give you all you want in your life without asking for anything but "faith". Here are 5 simple steps to follow in order to make your life miraculous, successful and full of happiness.

The Steps - 


  1. BE SURE
    1
    Be sure about your wish. [1]
    • Be sure you want a miraculous life.
    • Surety brings peace to your mind. If you are clear about what you want, you will be all ready to do further steps.
    • Many people are not confirm about what they really want. That doesn't let them focus on their wishes and ultimately they fail to achieve what they want.
    • Just be sure of the goal you are pursuing.
    • Write down your wishes on a piece of paper and paste in place where you can see it often. It will help you retain on your wish and be sure that it is what you want.
    • Whatever you think, be sure it is what you think; whatever you want, be sure that is what you want; whatever you feel, be sure that is what you feel.T. S. Eliot
  2. I BELIEVE
    2
    Believe that you can achieve what you want. [2]
    • Believing pulls your goal in reach. It makes your mind strong in order to face calamities, disturbances, distractions heading your way.
    • Faith makes your work half done. Keep faith in yourself and in Miracles. The combined faith leads you to the "Zenith of success".
    • Be an Optimist and just let your heart and mind know that You believe in yourself.
    • Close your eyes and feel as if you have already achieved it.
    • Your power is in your thoughts, so stay awake. In other words, remember to remember. -Rhonda Byrne (The Secret)
  3. 3
    Make a move.
    Make a move
    [3]
    • Now is the time. Start it right now. Start pursuing what your life wants from universe.
    • Just do it. Don't think about any other thing when you are thinking about your goal. Channelise your energy in just one direction. That gives you immense power to fulfil your dream.
    • And the Universe adds its power to your vibes. It pulls things to you and you get them in your hands.
    • Go ahead with all your might and efforts however tired you are. Keep forwarding with baby step.
    • Miracles happen with those who want them to happen.
    • You always have it in you dear soul, Just do what you need to do.
    • Your positive actions combined with positive thinking results in success.Shiv Khera (You can Win)
  4. Goal achieved
    4
    Achieve it. [4]
    • Yes. If you want, no can stop you from achieving it. If you follow your heart and work on your dreams, you just will change your life miraculously.
    • Its not difficult at all. You know you can do it.
    • Universe or superpower or Krishna or Allah or Jesus, Anyone in whom you trust is always there to give you whatever you want if you are ready to work hard.
    • And, when u want something, whole universe conspires in helping you to achieve it. Paulo Coelho (The Alchemist)
  5. 5
    Read some books suggested below.
    • That will add a cherry on cake.These books will help you gain confidence over yourself. They will help you create a Transformed and Miraculous Life. 
    • Secret - Rhonda Byrne
    • You can win - Shiv Khera
    • The Alchemist - Paulho Coelho
    • How to win friends and influence people - Dale Carnegie.
TIPS
  • Be confident about yourself.
  • Always try to look over the positive side of things.
  • Value every person who cares for you.
  • Don't forget, Hope for the best but prepare for the worst.
  • Be happy with what you have but don't stop dreaming for better things.
  • You are the one who can help yourself to reach the top. Believe in yourself.

WARNINGS
  • Ups and downs will always be there. Don't forget they are just for your betterment.
  • Having miraculous life doesn't mean not having problems in your life. Problems will be there but you need to face them thoroughly. And facing and solving those problems will make your life better.

                       My wishes are always with you. Stay blessed :) 

                                  ~Zary (Nirzary Joshi, India)